When we were young, people do asked, "What do you want
to be when you grow up?" Maybe you said a doctor, or an astronaut. Maybe
you said an actor, or a lawyer, or a doctor. With starry eyes, you dreamed of
the day you would live in a rich mansion, with maids and butlers. Then, a
career seemed like something that would happen a lifetime away. But now that
the time has come to choose, your interests have probably changed. Finding the
right career for you can be difficult, but not impossible.
Ask yourself the key question.
The respected philosopher Alan Watts said that the best way to find what you
should be doing with your life was to ask yourself this important question:
"What would you do if money were no object?" What if you won the
lottery and you could do whatever you wanted to do with your life? Sure, you'd
want to relax for a while, but eventually you're going to get bored. So what
would you do to make yourself really, truly happy?
Break your dream job down into its most basic components.
Take whatever activity or job you discovered in the previous step and break it
down into its most basic parts. If you were explaining the job to a 3-year-old,
how would you describe it? If that child asked you what was fun about it or how
it made someone feel when they did it, what would you say? These basic
components make up what you should be looking for in a career.
Think about what it really is that makes you happy.
Think about the basic components of that career experience and decide which
aspect pulls you. Realize what attracts you to that career. Do you find
happiness in making other people happy? Are you more attracted to the art of
acting and the process of creating the work of art that is a film?
- You can do this for your current job as well, not just a theoretical dream job. If there's something about your job that you do now, factor that in as well.
Look into what jobs provide similar feelings and
experiences. Look for jobs that mimic the feelings
that you're looking for from that career. For example, if you were a
millionaire and would rather travel, jobs which mirror the experience you have
would be a tour guide, a teacher abroad, or a flight attendant position. If you
would rather spend all day outdoors in nature, you could consider a job as a
geologist, lumberjack, wilderness guide, or park ranger.
Consider the upsides and downside of that career.
When you consider these more-attainable careers, make sure to do your research.
Be well acquainted with what life looks like in that career path. You will need
to know what the downsides of those jobs are if you want to make an informed
decision.
Factor in your financial needs.
If you're really in a job that fulfills you and makes you happy, getting rich
off of it really won't matter to you. However, life is full of obligations that
go beyond your happiness. If your dream career can't help feed your family or
pay your student loans, you might need to look into other options. However, you
should always keep your focus on jobs that provide similar feelings to what
makes you happy.
Factor in what you're good at.
Do you have an area where you really excel? Not just something that you do okay
but something where you do it better than most people that you meet? This is
something that you should factor in when looking for a career. You may not
think that you enjoy it too much, but the fact of the matter is that you often
won't get good at something unless you enjoy it on at least a certain level.
You may be able to monetize your skill, or even home in on the aspect of it
that you enjoy so much (for guidance).
Analyze your hobbies. Many hobbies can be
monetized. This often means starting a small business and the headaches that
come with it, but you may end up with a career that you really enjoy. Before
you dismiss your hobby as being something that you could never make money off
of, do some searching on the internet. You may be surprised.
Take an online job test. If you feel really
lost and none of these tricks help you, consider taking an online job test or
going in to a local career center to get some advice from professionals. Good
online tests can be found easily, but many of the best require a small fee.