Sexual
urge is a natural thing, it happens to both male and female but in different
way. Sexual urge is not a sin but following its direction and fulfilling its
wish is where sin comes in. Ability to control your sexual desire is one of the
greatest self-control you can give yourself. Here are the reasons you should
control your sexual urge;
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Addiction. Inability to control your sexual
urge can lead to addiction and once it has become an addiction, it will
be very hard to stop.
·
Future. Not being able to control your
sexual urge can affect the future in the sense that you might find it difficult
that either your wife or husband will be able to satisfy your sexual desire and
this bring about adultery and even a kind of hatred that cannot be expressed.
·
To avoid looseness. Excess of everything is bad. Too
much of sex can make a person become loose in the sense
that you will find it difficult to even say no to your enemy, and once a lady
is loose, her dignity is lost and the loss of dignity is the greatest loss of a
lady.
·
To avoid sudden death. For male, when you are not able to control your
sexual urge, you will find yourself having sex with anyone and even those who are into sex-business (whoremonger),
and once you contact a disease or thunderbolt which leads might lead to sudden
death, that is the end.
·
To prepare yourself for a better
home. Ability to
control your sexual urge will help your home a lot. Some couple fights over sex
issue but if you ask them why they are fighting, they will give you a flimsy excuse.
Probably one of them does not have control over his/her sexual urge.
·
To protect your integrity and
dignity. Most
people believe that the person that loose integrity and dignity for having sex
is female. Fine, it is true but men also have integrity to protect. As a man,
if you cannot control your sexual urge now, then you might find yourself having
sex with your staff or even your daughter’s friend and this is loss of
integrity as well.
Below are few points on how to
control your sexual urge;
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Identify your weakness.
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Set rules for yourself and live
by it.
·
Run when necessary.
·
Remind yourself of the dangers in
sex.
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Train your mind not think of it.
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Forget the pleasure involve.
·
Pray about it.
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